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Tuesday, 28 September 2021

The Negative Reaction of Teenagers Towards Entertainment Literature

By SHEM Godwins


 According to Newtons's third law of motion,whenever two objects interact,they exert equal and opposite forces on each other(every action force has an equal and opposite reaction).Now,in the context of literature and society,the same reasoning could be applied,the transformative purpose or function of literature,which implies that both the reader and a literary piece have a reciprocal experience at a particular time and place.It poses the nortion that the effect of a literary piece is felt through interaction from the audience.All forms of literature;novels,poetry,music,videos that involves creativity impacts on an individual through their interaction and how they interpret the contents.

Human behavior is also flexible and can be altered at any given time due a person's contact or exposure to whatever makes him/her happy.At adolescence,teenagers have a tendency of wanting to experiment everything that they come across.This therefore,could give an explanation as to why there has been a sudden and abnormal change in the behaviors of our school going children,both at primary and secondary levels.Cases of early pregnancies,twisted sexual orientations,drug and substance abuse as well as student-teacher relationship in the recent past have gone up with or without a case study,it is evident.








The society has failed to make teenagers realize the need to treat sex as a responsibility and not pleasure.Their exposure to sexual content through entertainment literature has reciprocated their urge to try and experiment whichever idea is portrayed there with.In the context of Kenyan music,to be specific the so called gengetone genre which has a huge teen following,our children have been poisoned with the dirty lyrics that the artists openly utter to their ears.Most of which promote sexual immorality in their videos yet we have accepted such kind in our society.Most parents have introduced their young girls to family planning giving them a justification to engage in premarital sex whenever they like.As a result,they irresponsibly fall to sexual chemistry without protection against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.

There is no universal religious assent to same sex relationship.If I take the advantage to ride on the provision of the[american democracy under president obama]that,through the supreme court that accorded dignity to same sex marriage (BBC NEWS-26th June,2015).This movies has seen many western movies incorperate the idea of same sex relationship as part of a society.For instance,watching Tyler Perry's "The Oval" where a character Kyle is in love with another male character Don to an extent of confronting Don's wife.Similarly,watching Netflix's "who killed Sara?" you encounter other two male characters who date and goes to the extent of wanting to raise a child.These movies regardless of whatever they portray have effects on our kids when they watch them.Gayism has never been an African thing.If we never had same sex relationships when the african parenting never allowed the interaction of boys and girls traditionally,why have it now when we have mixed primary and secondary schools and institutions of higher learning?

Drug and substance abuse has also gone up in our schools.It is a problem teachers face but no rational combat mechanism has been developed.If an investigation could be carried out right now to determine this,then the results will shock the world.Taking you back to the current teen's favorite music genre-gengetone that publicly praise bhang smoking and other drugs,appeal to our teens both boys and girls.Believe me,I am a teacher and this children will tell you they smoke in form of a joke in class when they mean it.As a result,it gives them the courage to approach teachers who look young in their hallucinated consciouness.Take your time and watch the video of the song "Kimangoto" by Boondoks gang featuring Timmy Tdat and you will get the whole idea.They make it appear normal a male student harassing a female teacher and vise versa,and in reality when you take action,they have the advantage.Our society believes a student more than a teacher when it comes to defense.

Literature is good,entertainment as well.Transormation in the modern societal set up is productive.Negative transformation is like a self processed poison.Bowing to the pressure of destructive literature will eventually yield a rotten society where obscenity and unethical behavior will be the new normal.Our teenagers should be guided.Guidance and counseling departments in schools should be active.Parents should teach their children on sex from the onset of their adolescence.


Thursday, 13 October 2016

Types Of ‘Mboches’ You’re Sure To Meet In Kenyan Homes


Most Kenyan homes have maids, popularly known as mboches. These are the women that help the homeowners with household chores and taking care of the children.

Interestingly, they all have different characters. Among the thousands of mboches in residential homes, you will find these seven common types:

1. The Nollywood movies and soap operas enthusiast

This mboch can’t keep her hands off the remote control. She spends all day watching ‘Oga’ movies and Mexican telenovelas instead of working. She’s the reason KPLC keeps making huge profits. She’s so good at television arts that she can predict what’s going to happen next. She’ll say “Aki Alehandro atakiss Marimar. Sikudaganyi. Ngoja tu five minutes uone.” Five minutes later…Boom! It happens. As a result of her screen addiction, most of her chores are done late. Probably during the last two hours before the owner of the house arrives.
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2. The ‘Moshene Monger’

This is the maid whose mouth keeps firing from all cylinders. She plays the role of detective and media at the same time. She digs out info about ‘mama so and so’ then she rushes to tell her fellow monger who in turn formulates a hypothesis before adding information about ‘baba so and so’. What results is a mega story that could crush TMZ’s website! It’s crazy.
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3. The ‘part of the family’ mboch

She does her work so well all the time that as a result, she is treated as part of the family. She never annoys her employers and always makes sure all their needs are met in good time. The kids love to see her too and are ever excited when she goes to pick them from school. They love playing with her as well. God bless this mboch.
Image: Naa_Ashorkor_/Instagram
Image: Naa_Ashorkor_/Instagram


4. The future resident of heaven

This one is so holy, she has probably booked herself a bedsitter in heaven already and paid the deposit. Gospel songs are her thing and she still buys Rose Muhando’s ringtones at 30 bob. Her favorite hobby is wrestling with the kids for the TV’s remote control when they want to watch cartoons and she wants to watch the scratch filled gospel CD her church suitor gave her.
Image: KemiFilani
Image: KemiFilani


5. The mboch that can’t keep up with town life

The city moves too fast for her. She can’t keep up with all the technology and the rush. She is used to the quiet rural life and as a result she keeps making all kinds of blunders. This is also the mboch who despite staying in Nairobi for a couple of years has been unable to ditch her ethnic accent. When she talks, you feel like laughing but then you remember that being mean is not cool at all.
Image: BlackCityGirl
Image: BlackCityGirl


6. The mboch that does sinister things whenever the employers are away

This type of maid is fond of mischief. Whenever she is left alone at the home, she finds it appropriate to try on her madam’s clothes or bring her boyfriends over. The saying ‘when the cat is away, the mouse will play’ was clearly created for her. Unfortunately, she’s the type that gets fired wherever she goes.
Photo: El.Carna/Instagram
Photo: El.Carna/Instagram


7. The mboch from hell

This is the mboch who acts like satan himself.  She will beat and bully the kids when their parents are away, refuse to feed the baby or even eat the baby’s food. This is the mboch we all dread to have. She probably hates her life so much that she directs all her anger and bad energy towards the child. This mboch, has a special corner preserved for her in hell…
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COURTESY: OMGVOICE
 

Friday, 8 July 2016

Kenyan Photographer Osborne Macharia Covers Courageous Mau Mau Fighters In Bold Photographic Narrative

Image: Osborne Macharia

There is definitely no better way to tell the stories of your countries’ struggles than through a creative mind.

In this series Macicio, the Kikuyu word for “spectacles,” Kenyan photographer Osbourne Macharia gives us a fictional narrative based on a group of freedom fighters in Kenya that lead a revolt against the British empire in the 1950’s.
Osbourne applies such detail and charisma to the series that it gives you a certain sense of nostalgia and innermost gratitude to the soldiers that were brave enough to stand in our defence in Kenya’s colonial times.
The photographer’s short prologue ascribes context to the photographic narrative:
It tells a story of a special unit of Mau Mau fighters (guerilla freedom fighters during Kenya’s struggle for independence) that was made up of highly skilled opticians who created crude spectacles to identify and eliminate the enemy at night. Little is known about them until now.
The descriptions are based solely on the interpretation of the artist.

General Njuguna

Commander-in-chief of the unit. Fighter since the age of nine. The different stars represent the lives he has saved.
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Image: Osbourne Macharia

Second Commander Kigotho

The last man standing and only survivor from his previous battalion. He’s always at the back of the group with his specially designed specs that spot the enemy from behind.
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Image: Osbourne Macharia

Karanja ‘The Mole’ Jere

Normally operates underground with his modified, underground-breathing suit. His hair is designed to appear like a rodent burrowing through the soil and his spectacles are telescopic. Able to see close to one kilometre away.
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Image: Osbourne Macharia

Nyakundi

Communications expert and voice imitator, he uses the knobs attached to the mouthpiece on his specs to imitate five different animals using code language.
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Image: Osbourne Macharia



Kimani ‘Ninja’ Nganga

Hands-on fighter and front man in the pack. He’s a master tracker and attributes his high level of senses to the wire dish on his jacket.
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Image: Osbourne Macharia

And the wonderful team that created this amazing work 

HASSELBLAD MASTER FINALIST Osborne Macharia, The brilliant creative behind the spectacle designs, Kevo Abbra and team.

HASSELBLAD MASTER FINALIST Osborne Macharia, The brilliant creative behind the spectacle designs, Kevo Abbra and team.



Images courtesy of Osbourne Machari

Here Are Africa’s Most Powerful Daughters

By JEMEDARI Mwanawakiume


1. Aya Abdel Fattah

She is the only daughter of Aya Abdel Fattah al Sisi, current president of Egypt.
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2. Isabel Dos Santos

She is the daughter of Angola’s president Jose Eduardo dos Santos. Santos is currently the only female billionnaire from Africa according to Forbes
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3. Faith Elizabeth Sakwe

She is the oldest daughter of President Goodluck Jonathan, who recently got married to fiance, Godswil Osim Edwards.
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4. Bona Mugabe

The 25 year old is the first child of Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe and his wife Grace. She studied finance at the City University of Hong Kong and currently works at a dairy firm in Mazowe, Zimbabwe.
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5. Zahra Buari

This 21 year old is a recent medical microbiology graduate of the University of Surrey, United Kingdom.
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6. Anastasia Brenda Biya

The daughter of the President of the Republic of Cameroon is also addicted to the famous social network in vogue and is followed by almost 3,000 followers. Indeed, Brenda Biya opened his Instagram account in 2012 and publicly shared photos to her student everyday family life or reflections and thoughts.
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7. Malika Bongo Odimba

She is the only daughter of Gabonian President Ali Bongo Odimba and his French wife Sylvia. The 32 year old is passionate about African women and is a rights activist in her own right.
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8. Princess Sikhanyiso Dlamini

Princess Sikhanyiso Dlamini is the eldest daughter of King Mswati III of Swaziland. She is the first of his 30 children, and her mother is the first of King Mswati’s 10 queens.
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9. Thuthukile Zuma

Thuthukile Zuma is the chief of staff in the Department of Telecommunications and Postal Services and youngest of South African president Jacob Zuma’s four daughters with ex-wife Nkosazana Dlamini-Zuma. She is known for being the youngest head of a minister’s office ever appointed in South Africa. Her appointment was criticised for due to her young age, alleged lack of experience for the position, and close personal relationship with the president.
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10. Ngina Kenyatta

The 25 year old leads a low key life since her father was elected president and photos of her clubbing were leaked on social media.
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Lies Guys Tell When They’re Hitting On You


By JEMEDARI Mwanawakiume

This Soap Opera demon behaviour is limited to just the Soap Operas. Guys have gotten “the player” title. Just ask any babe.

Our guys have very sweet mouths. They know how to “whine” you so you show them where your mumu button is.

Here are some common lies Naija guys have been known to utter when they’re hitting on you:




































Annoying Questions You Should Never Ask a Woman

Monday, 4 July 2016

11 Dating Mistakes Kenyan Girls In Their 20s Can Relate To

 By JEMEDARI Mwanawakiume

We can all relate to having pulled the wrong number at one point in our lives.

Easy Tips To Impress Any Woman And Get Her To Fall For You

By JEMEDARI Mwanawakiume

Let’s face it, making an impression on a lady for her to fall for you is not as easy as it seems. It takes a lot of confidence and know-how to execute it successfully.

For some people, it’s a herculean task while for others, it’s a very normal everyday act.
Whichever category you fall in, there are things you can do to impress a woman and have her fall in love with you. It’s just about knowing what to do, when to do it and how to do it.
Below are some tips on impressing that any woman.

1. Look And Feel Great

There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who looks and feels great. Your confidence goes through the roof once you look and feel great and trust me, the woman you’re interested in will see.

Take time to groom yourself. Eat healthy, exercise, use nice colognes, make sure your clothes are on point and get your hair neatly done. These are all little things that go through the eyes of a woman and runs straight to her heart.

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2. Use Every Opportunity To Showcase Your Abilities

We are all different people and we like and love different things. You might not know what your woman of interest likes, therefore, it’s important that you cease every opportunity to showcase your abilities when you’re with her. If you’re a good singer, invite her out to a karaoke bar and sing for her or sing some songs for her whiles she’s with you. If you are into sports, invite her to watch you play sometime. This is the way to make sure she knows your talent and if she finds it attractive.

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3. Be Confident

I believe you’ve heard this several times. The reason your friend or that guy gets to chat and hang with all those high-class ladies is because he’s confident. There’s nothing more that puts women off than a timid man. You can’t win the heart of any lady by showing fear. Before approaching her, know exactly what you want to talk about, walk upright with your shoulders straight and offer a firm handshake. Let every word from your mouth exude confidence. Don’t stutter and don’t mince words.

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4. Compliment Her

This is a bit tricky because too much of it will get you an opposite result from what you set out to obtain. When you meet her, compliment her on her looks and be sincere about it. If it’s her hair that you like, let her know. If it’s her shoe or her bracelet, focus on that and tell her so. Being general about your compliment will not do you any good so be specific so she sees that you’re totally focused on her and can notice little details about her look.

If this is a woman you see quite often, then be meticulous about it. Don’t see her each time and compliment her, she’ll feel you’re not being sincere and she’ll begin to shun your company.

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5. Surprise Her

Women love surprises and they feel attracted to a man who surprises them. You don’t need an expensive gift to surprise her and make an impression. Send her lunch at work, buy her cake, chocolate, perfume, bracelet etc. Nothing out of the ordinary, just everyday stuff and see how she’ll appreciate it. Imagine sending her lunch one afternoon and catching her at a time when she’s really hungry but hasn’t been able to go out to eat. She’ll love and appreciate it.

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6. Have A Sense Of Humor

Anybody who doesn’t laugh isn’t human. We all love to laugh and we love those who make us laugh. Women are happy-go people, they always want to laugh and have fun therefore if you can give her that happiness and joy each time she finds herself with you, then you’re guaranteed a spot in her heart. This alone wouldn’t make her fall in love with you though but this added to your other qualities, will draw her to you like a magnet. Make her have a good laugh.

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7. Be Honest

Don’t tell her you live in Trassaco or Regimanuel. Don’t borrow clothes or cars to impress her. Sit down and ask yourself, what happens when we start dating and she finds out I don’t own any of those? No matter what you do, make sure you’re open and honest with her. Women love honest people.

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You may want to see definitive guide to getting any girl’s number in less than two minutes.

Sunday, 3 July 2016

Ways To Overcome Shyness And Become Super Confident

 By Jemedari Mwanawakiume

Confidence is not left to a few people. We all have the capability of being confident, we just don’t know how to.

Shy people tend to miss out on a lot of things simply because they don’t socialise very well. However, the good news is that you can change it. being shy is a state of mind and you can change that to being super confident.