SEX IS NOT A BARGAINING TOOL

By Hellen OKORE

Sex is a basic tool in marriage but these days it is a necessity especially to the unmarried who are majorly the youths and it seems to be something very obvious and compulsory.

This targets majorly the ladies. We ladies are always taken as fools with the men simply because we believe that opening our legs will make a man open his heart. No amount of sex will make a man love you .The only thing he will just desire you or maybe crave you but its lust on his groins that is driving him; not love in his heart drawing him.

I know during ejaculation he will whisper a lot of sweet nothings in your ears, telling you how much he loves you and how sweet you are but that is not an assurance you will end up to win his heart. So ladies do not be convinced when you make love with a man you should have hope and call your girlfriends to organise a wedding because marriage is never a guarantee
Some ladies believe that using their body as enticement will enclose men into them and through striving hard to give a man good sex will make the man marry her. No! Pull out because he won’t put a ring on your finger because you are a good performer!

Sleeping with a man and even getting pregnant for him is not a big deal because a lady may still get pregnant for a man and the man might even accept to marry her, but the most important thing which is love will be news to the lady .You might tie the man because of the pregnancy but you will never tie his heart and mind into loving you.

Ladies, campus ladies to be exact, be warned that sex is not a bargaining tool to get a ring and marriage licences .Engaging in sex with married men just for cash proves how insane and dummy you are because that man will only offer you his body and money but his heart and love belongs to his wife. Wait for the appropriate time with the correct person with your clothes on and legs closed.